EnglishBabe
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Registered: Jun 2003
Location: Beaver Springs, Pennsylvania
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Sorry I sounded so negative in my post, it wasn't meant to come off that way. I married young, at 19 I thought I knew what I wanted and pretty much married the first one to show inerest. In retrospect, I should have lived my life a bit and knew what was out there to be experienced and do, before I married and had children. Liv and enjoy life before you get married, young'uns, you only get 1 chance at it. If I would have dated my first husband longer, I would have found out the control freak he was and that his only goal in life was to make mine miserible. After 8 yrs. and 2 children, I left with my babies and ran. Never looked back.
I feel very lucky to have the husband I do today, his only goal is to please me and take care of the children (even though they aren't all his own). He has a kind heart and indulges my every whim(poor man, I have a few, lol).
So the moral of the story is, take your time, make sure you want to be together for life and can see a future together. Don't go into a marriage planning to change the other person, it doesn't work, trust me. If you like what you have and want that forever, then I wish you both the very happiest of lives together and my it be fruitfull and forever.
Frank and I have 12 yrs. together and I almost have him house broken now, he cleans up well and most of all shares the same interests I have.
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