steve bankston
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Registered: Sep 2013
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Re: Stay Calm and relax
quote: Originally posted by Rowdy
You know, sometimes we men can get in too big of a hurry. We see the possibilities of what can be and we try to force it, instead of letting thing develop at a natural pace. Women on the other hand, see what can be and they nurture and are more patient.
Just like parenting, mothers are nurturers. They sense things about kids that dad's just don't see. Moms know how a kid is feeling while dads see what a child is doing. Dads want to fix, moms want to heal. This is why two parents understanding their roles is vital to child development. After raising three kids with wonderful wife who is comfortable in her maternal role and accepting of my paternal role, I have learned to listen to the softer viewpoint and accept its merits.
So, what does this have to do with training young dogs you ask? Well the last week of hunting Jazz I have seen pathetic work, a lack of drive and enthusiasm. My girls, after hearing about it said, maybe she is not having fun. Hhhhmmm. Of course the man al in me says " how could she not be having fun, I am hunting her quite a bit!" Then I started thinking about what she is doing when I am not pushing her and demanding excellence. The answer not much. She sits in her kennel and waits for it to get dark so we can hunt.
The last couple of days have consisted of four wheeler rides, swimming in the cool creek and relaxing in the house. Look at the photo below. Does it look like she might be missing being part of the family?
I know this is one of those points that most of you seasoned dog trainers will read and say this is an obvious point. I guess I am actually talking to the younger trainers. The folks who read about this wonder pup or that super dog and get frustrated. My advice; STOP PUSHING.
1) Don't be fooled into thinking that you have to have an 11 month old nite ch or a pkc baby stakes ch to be successful
2) we are looking for years of solid woods performances not flashes of youthful brilliance
3) Keep it fun. If you are frustrated, chances are your dog is too.
4) Never move forward until the issue is resolved. If you find your dog at a point that you can not fix move a step backwards and reinforce basics.
So, for me and Jazz, we will be taking a break during this hot spell. You will find us on the creek swimming at the pond fishing or just chilling out.
Thanks for reading.
X 2!!!!! Great Post!! Great Picture!!! Great Advice!!! Its HOT here and you and Jazz liable to bump into me and Briar some where on a creek bank as that's exactly what we have been doing. Plenty of time for Good Hunting but for now a change of pace in the fun department for these pups. Smart Girls, Smart Pup, Smart Trainer, one Happy Family!!
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