hellcat
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Sheep, Wolves and Sheepdogs
One Vietnam veteran, an old retired colonel, once said this to me:
"Most of the people in our society are sheep. They are kind, gentle,
productive creatures who can only hurt one another by accident."
This is true. Remember, the murder rate is six per 100,000 per year,
and the aggravated assault rate is four per 1,000 per year. What
this means is that the vast majority of Americans are not inclined
to hurt one another. Some estimates say that two million Americans
are victims of violent crimes every year, a tragic, staggering
number, perhaps an all-time record rate of violent crime. But there
are almost 300 million Americans, which means that the odds of being
a victim of violent crime is considerably less than one in a hundred
on any given year. Furthermore, since many violent crimes are
committed by repeat offenders, the actual number of violent citizens
is considerably less than two million. Thus there is a paradox, and
we must grasp both ends of the situation: we may well be in the most
violent times in history, but violence is still remarkably rare. This
is because most citizens are kind, decent people who are not capable
of hurting each other, except by accident or under extreme
provocation. They are sheep. I mean nothing negative by calling them
sheep. To me it is like the pretty, blue robin's egg. Inside it is
soft and gooey but someday it will grow into something wonderful. But
the egg cannot survive without its hard blue shell. Police Officers,
Soldiers, and other Warriors are like that shell, and someday the
civilization they protect will grow into something wonderful. For now,
though, they need warriors to protect them from the predators. "Then
there are the wolves," the old war veteran said, "and the wolves feed
on the sheep without mercy." Do you believe there are wolves out
there who will feed on the flock without mercy? You better believe it.
There are evil men in this world and they are capable of evil deeds.
The moment you forget that or pretend it is not so, you become a sheep.
There is no safety in denial. "Then there are Sheepdogs," he went on,
"and I'm a sheepdog. I live to protect the flock and confront the wolf."
If you have no capacity for violence then you are a healthy productive
citizen: a sheep. If you have a capacity for violence and no empathy
for your fellow citizens, then you have defined an aggressive sociopath,
a wolf. But what if you have a capacity for violence, and a deep love
for your fellow citizens? What do you have then? A sheepdog, a warrior,
someone who is walking the hero's path Someone who can walk into the
heart of darkness, into the universal human phobia, and walk out
unscathed. One career police officer wrote to me about this after
attending one of my Bulletproof Mind Training Sessions: I want to say
thank you for finally shedding some light on why it is that I can do
what I do. I always knew why I did it. I love my folks, even the bad
ones, and had a talent that I could return to my community. I just
couldn't put my finger on why I could wade through the chaos, the gore,
the sadness, if given a chance try to make it all better, and walk
right out the other side. Let me expand on this old soldier's excellent
model of the sheep, wolves, and Sheepdogs. We know that the sheep live
in denial, that is what makes them sheep. They do not want to believe
that there is evil in the world. They can accept the fact that fires can
happen, which is why they want fire extinguishers, fire sprinklers, fire
alarms and fire exits throughout their kids' schools. But many of them
are outraged at the idea of putting an armed police officer in their kid's
school. Our children are thousands of times more likely to be killed or
seriously injured by school violence than fire, but the sheep's only
response to the possibility of violence is denial. The idea of someone
coming to kill or harm their child is just too hard, and so they chose the
path of denial. The sheep generally do not like the sheepdog. He looks a
lot like the wolf. He has fangs and the capacity for violence. The
difference, though, is that the sheepdog must not, cannot and will not
ever harm the sheep. Any sheep dog who intentionally harms the lowliest
little lamb will be punished and removed. The world cannot work any other
way, at least not in a representative democracy or a republic such as ours.
Still, the sheepdog disturbs the sheep. He is a constant reminder that
there are wolves in the land. They would prefer that he didn't tell them
where to go, or give them traffic tickets, or stand at the ready in our
airports in camouflage fatigues holding an M-16. The sheep would much
rather have the sheepdog cash in his fangs, spray paint himself white,
and go, "Baa." Until the wolf shows up. Then the entire flock tries
desperately to hide behind one lonely sheepdog. The students, the victims,
at Columbine High School were big, tough high school students, and under
ordinary circumstances they would not have had the time of day for a
police officer. They were not bad kids; they just had nothing to say to a
cop. When the school was under attack, however, and SWAT teams were
clearing the rooms and hallways, the officers had to physically peel those
clinging, sobbing kids off of them. This is how the little lambs feel about
their sheepdog when the wolf is at the door. Look at what happened after
September 11, 2001 when the wolf pounded hard on the door. Remember how
America, more than ever before, felt differently about their law enforcement
officers and military personnel? Remember how many times you heard the word
hero? Understand that there is nothing morally superior about being a
sheepdog; it is just what you choose to be. Also understand that a sheepdog
is a funny critter: He is always sniffing around out on the perimeter,
checking the breeze, barking at things that go bump in the night, and
yearning for a righteous battle. That is, the young Sheepdogs yearn for a
righteous battle. The old Sheepdogs are a little older and wiser, but they
move to the sound of the guns when needed right along with the young ones.
Here is how the sheep and the sheepdog think differently. The sheep pretend
the wolf will never come, but the sheepdog lives for that day. After the
attacks on September 11, 2001, most of the sheep, that is, most citizens in
America said, "Thank God I wasn't on one of those planes." The Sheepdogs the warriors, said, "Dear God, I wish I could have been on one of those
planes. Maybe I could have made a difference."
by LTC. Dave Grossman, USA (Ret)
I thought some of you might enjoy reading this as much as I did
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