Bruce m. Conkey
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Registered: May 2016
Location: Palatka, FL
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Steve, I agree with you on many of your points. I also feel a lot of the people bring nonsense on themselves.
Let me lay out how different guys view this sport and then talk about what happens to them.
You have a guy that truly loves the outdoors and loves to coonhunt. This guy understands what a good dog is, perhaps has one but hunts pups and hunts with friends and at times the dogs make a lot of mistakes. None the less he loves it and continues. This guy takes the wins and the losses and is willing to help others and don't blame the losses on them.
You have the guy that just wants to win hunts and is blind to how his dog performs. Doesn't see the improvements the dog needs but feels it is a winner. He goes to hunts and looses and the blame is always on the other guy or the other guys dog. How close he came, how it should of been different. This this the guy the fellows at the clubhouse tend to talk about. Steve, I know you probably feel like I do that instead of talking about this guy, try and help him. In most cases you soon find out there is no helping him. Flat out a Drama King and Drama follows him around. He is the guy that should of got promoted at work but didn't. He is the guy the real estate deal fell through and it is the banks fault. He is the guy that his ice cream melted and its the freezers fault for it not being frozen hard enough.
Bad part is that it only takes one like this to minimize the hard work and efforts of a dozen.
I think we should be respectful of others. I think it is more important to first show respect for others and a sport before you feel you are owed any.
Answer is to get with your local club and put the dog aside. Ask what you can do to make the club stronger. Work at the club house, mow the grass. Help out during hunts and fellowship with those that have the love of coonhunting at heart. What you will find is if your working with 10 guys from a club, the couple your with cutting grass will be talking about the two over there painting. All you can do is be a shining star for whats right and talk favorable about everyone. It starts with each individual and the mirror shows you the reflection of the only person you have any control over.
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